I received a message from a friend in India, Dr. Bharat Bhushan, relaying a message from a survivor in the recent Mumbai, India, attack. With permission of Rahul Welde, I share his practical ideas on surviving terror.
Mr. Welde was in the Taj Hotel in Mumbai (late November, 2008) and trapped inside when the Trident-Oberoi and Taj Mahal hotels were attacked.
“I was … in my room at the Taj Hotel the fateful night of the terrorist attacks. I managed to escape by the skin of my teeth at around 4 am, in sheer denial of allowing fire and smoke to swallow me.
“By God's grace, I managed to make the run down six floors and some few metres without the devil in my way. You can imagine how happy I am to be here typing this away…. I leave a few messages which might be of help to all good people.
“In the modern day world, risks are a plenty. Terrorists, tsunamis, earthquakes - the list can go on. None of these check on your profile, company, religion, class or seniority when they hit. They just hit. And we know now it can happen anywhere.
“Here are a few things we could all do to keep it safer and better.
1. Value your family and friends. Make sure you are covered well by insurance. Even if you are well off; leave them better off if the unfortunate were to happen.
2. Let them know details on things like bank accounts, investments, etc. Keep a folio with your spouse and close family members.
3. Use every waking moment to cherish what you have - family, friends, nature. Stay smiling, laughing and caring.
“Admittedly these aren't things I'd thought about deeply till now. I shudder at the thought of what if...
More practical, … “a few lessons that I want to share:
1. When in a hotel or a new place, please NOTE where the FIRE EXIT is. The fire exit route saved my life. I had no clue of where it was and why I ran where I did. Why I turned left or right. Providential escape for me - nothing more. I've stayed in hotels for years and don't remember ever paying attention to this. It's a few seconds invested that can save you from big trouble.
2. Insist on taking a room in the outer periphery - where the fire brigade can reach you. My room was on the inside and I tell you there was no chance the fire brigade would ever reach me. They would have always been a few yards, but several hours away. Ever thought of this detail?
3. A key item on your survival kit is your cellphone. I give it to Apple for developing the iPhone … Whatever your phone – a critical checkpoint is battery life. Often we wait for the battery to go down before charging. Don't! Keep it fully charged all the time. All the SMSes saved my senses and maybe even my life.
4. I learned for the first time that when running through fire and/or smoke - run bending down and wrap a wet blanket around you. I did that, thanks to a friend who advised me. It's a different story I chucked the blanket thinking that the cops would gun me down, mistaking me for a terrorist. Good tip nevertheless.
5. Don't miss the aspect of staying fit - in running shape. Can help you and maybe even you can help someone.
“These last few days I have heard and read a lot about peace marches and candles and politician bashing and police bashing and whatever else. I am sure a lot of energy will go in all that. Having been there, I can only say that every soul - the cop, the fireman, the medico and even the common man on the street was doing the best he could. I don't blame anyone. I am sure good will prevail over evil in the long term. The short term blips we cannot avoid.
“I have a lot to say and yet not much more. God is the greatest and leads to the ultimate destiny. I am thankful for all that has been and all that there is now.”